Obviously..people will need access to your mobile handset to check your sms or view that video clip. And your have the handset by your side all the time.

Think again. With internet and bluetooth present on your mobile, mobile privacy seems to be the first casualty. There are softwares available on the net that allow others to read your sms,your contact list or view the video clip without access to your handset.

Do not believe me. Check out the following sites that allow anyone to buy the software from the internet itself.

1.e-stealth.com
2.mobile-spy.com
3.thespyphone.com: this one does not even need an active gprs or bluetooth connection to spy on you
4.phonestealth.com